I'm a Toronto-based psychologist passionate about helping my clients build purposeful careers with less fear.
ABOUT ME
I'm a Toronto-based psychologist passionate about helping my clients build purposeful careers with less fear.
ABOUT ME
I specialize in helping professionals, leaders, and students with performance anxiety (i.e., public speaking, interview anxiety) and support clients in building their confidence in their careers. From assertiveness skills to emotional intelligence training, I support individuals, teams, and organizations to hone the strengths they need to communicate with confidence and distinction.
I also support clients navigate the job search process in a values-driven way. We work on professional brand development, job interview preparation, and landing the right position.
My area of focus is generally confidence challenges in the workplace, including:
Public speaking confidence
Career transitioning
Communication (i.e., assertiveness)
Confidence and self-esteem
Stress management
Interpersonal skills (i.e., emotional intelligence)
I have published numerous studies on job interview anxiety that have been featured in several journals and in media outlets. I am committed to remaining current on science relating to my areas of focus - I enjoy writing blog posts and serving as a guest on podcasts to share my knowledge, perspectives and expertise. I maintain a blog where I aim to make research accessible to the public and enjoy serving as a guest on podcasts related to my work and passions.
I love learning from and alongside the people I work with as we explore and discover resources and new ways of thinking. I use a solution-focused framework rooted primarily in cognitive behavioural and mindfulness-based strategies. Together, we’ll experiment with strategies until we find the right recipe for you.
I look forward to working with you and supporting you on your journey.
What would it feel like to feel more confident and authentic at work? Does your mindset often hold you back? This area of my practice includes working through impostor syndrome, people-pleasing tendencies (i.e., unassertiveness) and a general focus on building confidence to shine in your job and life.
Are you struggling with the pressures to perform or speak up at work? Or maybe you are looking to optimize your performance? In this area of my work, I focus both on building high performance habits and decreasing work-related performance anxiety (such as public-speaking & interview anxiety).
Are you wanting to elevate your leadership skills? Become more focused on your goals as an entrepreneur? This area of my work focuses on the development of leadership skills & emotional intelligence, biohacking your schedule to support your success and monthly/quarterly goal-setting.
Do you want to build a meaningful career? Perhaps you're considering a career move or looking for support with creating a career plan for yourself. This area of my practice includes: career goal setting & exploration, resume development & branding, mock interview prep, and supporting the creation of onboarding plans.
Unleash your potential.
Move towards situations that scare you.
Find your voice and bring your opinions to the table.
Build a set of strategies to reach your desired goals.
Develop your inner confidence and a positive mindset.
Put your best foot forward in your career and your life.
We schedule at least two 1.5 hour sessions in what I call the discovery phase of our work together. After that the sessions are typically 1.0 hour and are generally a mix of reviewing exercises, discussing strategies, and progress you’ve made. I apply solution-focused strategies rooted primarily in mindfulness, neuroscience and cognitive behavioural methods.
At this time, all appointments are virtual and take place over a secure encrypted platform.
I’ve designed an 10-week online group program that is designed to help you fear less and speak more. This signature program combines psychoeducation, science-based strategies, in-class activities and group-based learning to help individuals develop their own personalized toolkits for coping with public-speaking. This program is structured yet dynamic; while it is lecture-based, you will have plenty of opportunities for questions, participation and sharing (as much or as little as you want!)
I have designed several webinars and workshops delivered to organizations and groups of all sizes on topics including public speaking self-confidence, growth mindset, goal-setting, and mitigating stress in the workplace. At this time, all workshops and webinars are virtually delivered.
Interested in learning more about my how my services could benefit your company or organization? Book a call with me below to find out more.
Are you open-minded to trying strategies or exercises that you haven’t done before?
Are you committed and ready to make tackling this fear a priority in your life?
Do you have the patience to understand that results will likely not happen overnight?
Do you have the courage to push yourself outside of your comfort zone?
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Using terms like public speaking anxiety to describe the experience can create a negative relationship with speaking itself. When we talk about the ‘symptoms’ associated with our fear (like shaky hands or a racing heart) we end up associating the fear with something truly dangerous.
When we avoid situations with public speaking, we end up feeling even more tense about the experience. Over time, our worries are reinforced by the negative cycle of fearful thinking and avoidance - which only leads to more fear. Even the most seasoned public speakers feel some level of fear, but too much of it can hold us back from saying yes to an opportunity or experience we might enjoy.
People with public speaking anxiety often feel like the fear is something they have to conceal. They often ask if there are and tricks to keep your voice from shaking. Fortunately, research has given us plenty of solutions and tools to stop a shaky voice - as well as the ways to understand why it happens in the first place.
Group work is inherently social, so the group setting is a bonus for those with a fear of speaking in the workplace. Not only is group therapy more affordable, group therapy can be just as effective, if not more so, than one on one. The fear of public speaking is rooted in concerns over other people’s perceptions of us.
One of the questions I ask all new clients struggling with public speaking anxiety is, “do you feel like you need to conceal this problem?” The answer is almost always yes. People usually talk about the judgment they anticipate having to face—the kind that can result in pity, discomfort, negative evaluations and even demotions.
Many people have butterflies when getting up in front of a crowd. However, people with public speaking anxiety feel these jitters on another level. A racing heart, shaking palms, sweating, dry mouth, lightheadedness, or nausea can all be byproducts of the panic and dread associated with this kind of fear.
When our body is busy fending off panic and adrenaline, our thinking is less clear. It’s harder to concentrate, and we’re less likely to perform at our best. Research on social anxiety suggests that this is exactly what ends up happening: when we’re anxious, we perform poorly compared to our non-anxious peers.
Bridging the gap between where you are now and where you’d like to be is easier when you can unpack, dissect, and be curious about why you’re feeling scared
Public speaking doesn’t always involve a crowd. Job interviews, meetings, and other ‘high stakes’ scenarios can also result in public speaking anxiety or nerves that prevent you from doing your best. When this anxiety arises, the focus often shifts to the way you appear to others instead of the work you’re doing yourself: but true self confidence is knowing you’re going to be okay, even if something goes wrong.
The single most beneficial thing you can do to show up as your best self in this lifetime is to develop self-confidence. I’ve carefully curated my top 10 favourite books to help you discover the best, most confident version of you. happy reading!
Bayley Levy (@itsbayleysworld) invited me to speak on her podcast to discuss the origins of public speaking, why it’s so hard, and what we can do to better manage our fears.
It’s not that goal-setting needs to go out the window, rather we might want to alter our approach. It requires being agile, perhaps modifying our definitions of achievement and focusing on what I call “activity goals”.
The personal compass is a soul map, personal blueprint and self-made guide to help you gain clarity on how you want to feel in your life. This kind of soul work is needed to do the goal work in our lives.
One of the most powerful things we can do for ourselves in the pursuit of living an intentional life is getting clear on how we want to feel. You’ve probably noticed many people selecting words of the year right now, which I’m all for, but they don’t help us with the ‘how’ or the discovery of how we feel when we feel at our best. In this exercise, you get to review a list of over 100 feelings to create your top 5 words, deep-seated, transformative feelings so you can simplify your life.
When you’re feeling overwhelmed or the effects of performance anxiety nothing feels more soothing than having a simple and supportive emotional toolkit of mindfulness practices to choose from.
The greatest life lesson I learned this year is that while hard work will get you there, I don’t need to overdo it. Destination points are arbitrary and the ability to surrender is just as important as persistence.
Are your self-doubts getting in your way? In this podcast episode, I speak to Dr. Tracy Dagleish, clinical psychologist and host of the podcast, about what impostor syndrome is and how it interferes with our ability to reach our potential.
Does the thought of speaking about yourself make your heart race and palms sweat? In this podcast episode, I speak to Emilie Aries, founder of BossedUp about how to develop public-speaking self-confidence. We talk about the power of visualization and why it’s so hard, the tendency to become self-focused when we are nervous, breathing techniques, and so much more.
Enduring stress (you know...the kind that the whole global population is living right now with COVID-19) makes us want to act fast when what we actually need is to act slow - to stop, to think, and to broaden our perspective. How do you do this when you’re maxed out? Here’s an idea. Make the first and last action item of your day saying thank you.
Dozens of studies, including my own, have shown that anxious candidates fare worse in the job interview process. There are many reasons why job candidates tend to receive lower performance scores. But for now we will focus on one factor that seems to improve your rating of interview performance when you’re nervous: PREPARATION.
Here’s the important thing about public-speaking anxiety and many forms of anxiety: the more we panic and resist fear, the more power it has over us.
Research is beginning to show that we might have it all wrong - that if we want to help individuals who experience speech or performance anxiety, we shouldn’t be telling them to calm down.
Fear is a normal part of life, but it becomes problematic when your fear turns into avoidance and begins to run your life. For those with public-speaking anxiety, we look for any excuse to avoid speaking in front of others.
Some people like 1:1 sessions, others prefer group workshops and then there are those who are looking for DIY strategies. Having a blog and presence on social media is one way I hope to start a conversation and resource library for people who are looking to reduce fears they have related to public-speaking.
Psychologist with the College of Psychologists of Ontario (license #6978)
Ph.D, Industrial-Organizational Psychology, University of Guelph
M.A, Industrial-Organizational Psychology, University of Guelph
B.A, Honours Specialization Psychology, Western University
Hogan Personality Assessments
Korn Ferry Assessment of Leadership Potential (KFALP)
EQ-i 2.0 (Emotional Intelligence Assessment) by MHS
Inc.com, Forbes, Men’s Health, Globe and Mail, Huffington Post, National Post
Feiler, A. R., & Powell, D. M. (2016). The role of self-focused attention and negative self-thought in interview anxiety: A test of two interventions. International Journal of Selection and Assessment, 24, 132-149.
Feiler, A. R., & Powell, D. M. (2016). Behavioral expression of job interview anxiety. Journal of Business and Psychology, 31, 155-171.
Feiler, A. R., & Powell, D. M. (2013). Anxiety across the sexes: Support for the Sex-linked anxiety coping theory. Personality and Individual Differences, 54, 12-17.
Johnson, A.M., Vernon, P.A., & Feiler, A.R. (2011). Behavior genetic studies of personality: An introduction and review of the results of 50+ years of research. In G. J. Boyle, G. Matthews, & D.H. Saklofske (eds), Handbook of personality theory and assessment, Vol. 1. Sage Publishers. Reprinted in G. J. Boyle, D.H., Saklofske, & G. Matthews (eds), Psychological assessment, Vol. 1. Sage Publishers.
Fear less, not fearless: Why accepting our fear of public speaking is the pathway to personal success
When we meet for the first time, most of my clients say their goal is to totally extinguish their fear of public speaking. However, this not only sets you up for black and white thinking—’either I get rid of my public speaking fear, or I don’t!’—it also makes the goal less attainable and reinforces the idea of the fear being a ‘bad’ thing.